I have heard some of the excuses, like being tired or not in the mood, so why not say. “I am tired, and not in the mood.”?
A deeply ironic cultural backlash from feminism is that a lot of women feel they need to prove that they are sexy/sexual, and they need a male to affirm and validate this for them.
They lack confidence in their own sexuality, and continue to be brainwashed to be ‘nice’. I have noticed a lot of western women actually smile when they are upset or angry. Many sleep with guys they don’t like because they are scared of appearing ‘frigid’.
Still others feel they have to conform to the porn industries idea of ‘good in bed’ by contorting wildly atop their lover, shrieking and bending their legs in every direction.
Anyway the whole faking orgasm rigmarole is just the tip of the iceberg. Why would I want to have sex with someone before I felt comfortable with him seeing my naked body?!! KEEP THE LIGHTS ON. Why would I want to have sex with someone if I was too embarassed to ask them to wear a condom?
Why do many westerners have to get totally drunk before they have sex? Or are at risk of unsafe sex when they drink?
And most heartbreaking of all: why do so many western women put themselves at risk by not trusting that little voice inside when it tries to tell them that something is wrong, that they might be in danger?
One of the results of feminism was the negation of the instinctual feminine nature. Women chose to side with men against themselves and their unique, mysterious, beautiful traits: such as intuition and natural, healthy female sexuality.
